2017 was a transformative year for me, not necessarily a bad one, but a period of transition.

Every December, I take time to reflect, declutter, and reconnect with family, friends, and loved ones.

Reflecting on 2017, January and February were challenging. I was severely ill for the first time in over two decades. My job was disappearing, and one of my closest friends passed away during that time. I had to adapt and go with the flow.

My health became my top priority. I had no energy for anything else, including dealing with the job relocation to another state. I was convinced that my job had caused my illness.

Once I felt better, I started volunteering with a grassroots organization that makes a significant impact on people’s lives, regardless of their background. This, along with mentoring young women, keeps my passions alive.

Ultimately, all this transformation led me to pursue a fulfilling path that diverged from the corporate work I had been engaged in for nearly two decades. My final corporate employer was McKesson Corporation, a Fortune 500 company, where I served as an Executive Administrative Assistant/Administrator for 18 years.

Overcoming these challenges was beneficial; it made me stronger.

2017 made me appreciate the people in my personal life. My family and longtime friends are my rock: my 88-year-old mother, who inspires me to stand tall; my daughter, who relentlessly pursues new paths, so I’m always excited for her achievements; she’s an inspiration; my life partner, Don, who loves and supports me unconditionally, motivating me to strive harder; my sisters, who keep it real and bring laughter into my life; my brothers, who are gallant and brave; and my true friends, who are always there with brutal honesty. I love you all and thank you so much for your unwavering support and encouragement.

Let’s make 2018 a year filled with joy, laughter, and unforgettable experiences, regardless of the challenges we may face. Instead of dwelling on the past and trying to fix things that are beyond our control, let’s embrace the present moment and move forward with positivity. Begin the year with a clear vision and a positive attitude. Never lose sight of your dreams, and don’t let anyone dim your light or make you feel inadequate.

We’re constantly striving to be our best selves, in every aspect of our lives no matter what stage or age.   As Coco Chanel wisely said, “Keep your heels, head, and standards high.”

Happy New Year!!

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